You want to meet The One to share the rest of your life with, BUT it hasn't happened yet because...
• You tend to make bad choices and invest in emotionally unavailable men who don't meet your needs, leaving you feeling unsafe, insecure, neglected, abandoned, unseen, unheard, disrespected and/or unloved.
• You don't know how to qualify men thouroughly to know who's trustworthy and right for you (or not) quickly, which results in a lot of heartbreak and wasted time.
• You don't know how to have a healthy relationship with a man (and perhaps not with yourself either).
• You attract low-quality guys who put in little to no effort to pursue and build a relationship with you.
• You tend to invest in men who don't meet your needs (leaving you miserable) because you're unable to communicate your needs and set boundaries gracefully.
• You're a PEOPLE-PLEASER who needs to learn how to say “NO!” or an AGGRESSIVE, MASCULINE WOMAN who needs to learn how to say "NO" gracefully (so you can stop repelling men).
• You struggle with knowing that you're worthy of having the amazing man and relationship you want and knowing that it is 100% possible for you.
I’m Orchid Tao, Creator of the Attract the Right Man Program.
I know how frustrating it is to want love but not know how to navigate the dating jungle that's full of pitfalls.
Luckily for both of us, I've identified all the right steps and skills and have created proven man-filtering and man-qualifying methods to empower you to vet out wrong men fast! This way, you can finally break negative dating and relationship patterns and attract an amazing, loving healthy relationship with the RIGHT man as soon as possible.
If you’re a single woman who’s dating, thinking of dating, or is terrified of dating, then you need a simple, clear, step-by-step method to go from first date to lasting love without wasting any more precious time or enduring any more unecessary heartache.
If this sounds good to you, then I hope you’ll join me for an Attract the Right Man Adventure!
Before you can choose the RIGHT man, you need to be specific about what you need to feel safe, secure, cherished, and deeply loved.
Even if you already have a good idea of what your needs are, I'll help you get even CLEARER. Everyone gains new and crucial self-knowledge that strengthens their man-qualifying process when they complete my process.
I’ll help you:
>> Identify your core needs, values, non-negotiables, and triggers that you'll need to communicate to every man you want to pursue a relationship with.
>> Clear up any confusion about what is - or is not - reasonable to ask for.
>> Identify HOW you need to be shown love and treated by a partner to feel safe, secure, cherished, and loved.
>> Identify NEW and UNIQUE wants, needs, and triggers with each new man who impacts your life in new ways.
The self-knowledge you gain will inform you on what you need to look for in every man, and I'll also be there to help you identify new wants and needs with each new man that you date (that you won't see yourself). This way, you can qualify every man thoroughly to know if he's really right for you or not.
Once you know your needs, it's NOT just a matter of shooting off questions, which can feel very interrogating and push men away. How we ask and when we ask are crucial factors as well, and I'll be there to navigate each unique situation to help be as feminine and graceful as possible the whole way through.
P.S. If revealing what you need scares you, that it's an indication that you may be emotionally unavailable and have a fear of intimacy. Don't worry, we'll take it slow and we'll carefully qualify men to make sure that they're worth opening up to. Remember - I have your back!
Once you figure of out your wants, needs, non-negotiables, and triggers, you're ready to qualify men thoroughly.
However, this isn't about just shooting off a bunch of questions, which can often repel men.
I'll coach you to bring things up at the right time and in the right way to attract the right man closer rather than pushing him away.
I'll also help you navigate the gray areas of dating that are inevitable for everyone. This way, we'll be able to clarify his intentions (especially when things are questionable) and invite him to meet your needs. This is crucial becaue you don't want to write off good men by mistake, and you want to be crystal clear when a man really does disqualify himself.
The two crucial skills needed to thoroughly qualify men are graceful communication and boundary-setting skills, which I'll talk about next.
You'll learn how to spell out your needs clearly and gracefully (because no one can know everything you need unless spell it out all to them).
I'll write you graceful communication scripts for talks, texting, and messaging to help you communicate your wants, needs, and boundaries to men.
This way, you can know that you have done your best to bring out the best in every man and qualify each one thoroughly! You'll also learn how to ask for what you’re scared of asking for most with grace and ease. By doing so, you'll bring out the best in the right man and create the necessary opportunities for him to reveal himself to you.
I'll teach you how to express your feelings and needs to a man in feminine ways that make him listen to you with his heart (instead of his defenses), which will the right man to lovingly meet your needs.
P.S. Not speaking up at all, waiting too long to say something, or speaking up in controlling, demanding, and aggressive ways will create problems during the dating stage or later on in your relationship, so we're you're going to master healthy communication skills in this program. That way, you have what it takes to create lasting love with the right man.
Having boundaries shows men (and everyone else in your life) that you matter, you respect yourself, and you’ll only accept being treated WELL.
When we don't do this, we invest in men that leave us feeling neglected and abandoned.
When we do this harshly, we push men away.
I’ll help you set up important boundaries that uphold high standards gracefully. This will pique the interest of high-quality men and make you stand as a high-value woman.
And, you’re going to love hearing things like “I’m so impressed by you, and I respect you SO MUCH for that” after we put necessary boundaries in place. I’ll also help you ask the right questions to reveal a man’s true colors and intentions with you. This way, you won’t need to suffer in limbo or fool around with men who are NOT relationship-ready.
P.S. I love the joy in my clients' voices when they tell me how good it feels to be empowered with men (and everyone else in their lives too). Setting boundaries is a crucial life skill if you want to be happy and have peace of mind.
I'll teach you apply my proven man-filters and create customized ones for you too, so that you can deter wrong me quickly and magnetize more dates with qualified men than ever before.
Man-filters can be applied both online to weed out wrong men before they ever contact you and attract more men who meet more of your core values upfront.
Man-filters can be applied to men in person as early as before - or on - the first date. We'll keep creating and applying them throughout your entire dating process with every man to thoroughly qualify each one.
My Man-Filter Method alone is worth the entire investment of this program because it will save you months, if not years, of unnecessary worry, anxiety, confusion, and heartache, keep you out of time-wasting and heartbreaking pitfalls, and empower you to choose the right man. I'm so excited to help you build your dating confidence!
When should I respond to him? When should I ask where things are going with us? When do I tell him what I’m looking for? When do I tell him I want marriage (and kids)? When is it ok to have sex? When is it ok to commit to a relationship? All of the questions that spin you round and round, creating confusion, worry, stress, and anxiety, will no longer take a toll on you. With me by your side, I’ll show you the exact right steps to take with every man (and the exact right steps to take in every unique dating situation) so you don’t move
too fast and get attached to another wrong man. This way, you’ll be able to:
>> Take the right steps at the right time in the right order
>> Thoroughly qualify every man step-by-step efficiently as things unfold in each UNIQUE case
>> Determine who's trustworthy or not early
>> Know who's worth investing in or not
>> Finally choose the right man
I’ll also make sure that you don’t move too slow or seem too emotionally unavailable either, because that can definitely make men lose interest or scare them off. After all, they don’t want to get hurt or rejected either.
Part of the battle with finding love is keeping a resilient heart and mind. Beause it's too easy for self-loathing, negative thinking, and limiting beliefs to get the best of you, paralyze you, and shut you down - killing all hope and motivation to put yourself out there and be open o love.
You'll learn tools, exercises, meditations, and practices to help you release negative and
limitng beliefs that tend to creep in, dim your light, and shut you down.
You'll be supported to rise above negative self-talk: "I'm not enough," "Love's not possible for me," "It's too late," "I'm too old," "He doesn't exist" etc.
This way you put your attention and focus on what you actually want to attract more of that you want (rather than what you don't want). Being positive is also how you'll shine your beautiful inner light and be the most radiant and magnetic version of you (to attact the best man for you possible).
Mastering your mindset also empowers you to get over anything "bad" quickly, allowng you to be resilient and keep your faith strong, so that you can have a lot more fun dating instead of constantly feeling victimized and defeated.
Whether you want to improve your pickings or you feel totally challenged in the area of attracting men, don’t worry, I’ve helped women of all ages create a man flow and find love – even women in their 60’s who haven’t had dates or a relationship for 10 to 20 years. So, YES, there’s hope for you too!
Get ready to learn how to present yourself as a
high-value woman and learn how to flirt confidently, so you get pursued by more men and higher-quality men than every before.
How you carry yourself in the real world either attracts, intimidates, or comes across as invisible to men. How you show up online casts a wide net for men you don’t want or a wide net for quality men you’d really consider for the role of life partner. I’ll show you how to make the most of both worlds!
Being too masculine OR feminine can sabotage your love life.
Being too feminine often looks like people-pleasing, over-giving, and not having high standards or strong boundaries (which attracts unhealthy men and relationships).
Beig too masculine often looks like being in your head, always focused on goals and work, and/or being too dmeanding, controlling, and aggressive - especially in your communication style (which repels the masculine men you want).
You'll learn how to balalnce out so you can keep the POSITIVE qualites of each energy and be the most attractive version of yourself.
When you can be in your heart and be present, playful, and sensuous AND communicate high standards and set strong boundaries gracefully, you'll magnetize high-quality men and get your needs met like never before!
If you’re like me, you hate crying yourself to sleep or having to deal with insomnia while your man snores away peacefully after a big, unresolved fight. After this program, you’ll be done with having relationships that are filled with horrible nights like these.
You’ll learn how to create a deeply connected and loving relationship that’s nearly conflict-free, peaceful, harmonious, and healthy.
We’ll start by creating a strong foundation during the dating stage - BEFORE you get into a relationship - that includes setting the parameters,
expectations, and boundaries for your relationship. This way, you’ll both know how to best treat each other and avoid doing things that could potentially cause irreversible damage to your relationship.
You’ll walk away with all the steps and skills to create deep trust, safety, a smooth sailing relationship, and healthy, lasting love.
People are going to wish they had what you have because you have it THAT good!
5 PRIVATE, 1-ON-1 COACHING SESSIONS
You can use these pirvate sessions in any way that serves you best. Ask me questions in private, have me optimize your entire online dating profile from top to bottom, or go deeper on anything you need extra support around.
(VALUE - $1,500)
PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP SUPPORT
Get all of your questions answered in between our live trainings. This way, you can effectively apply the right steps in the right order to your unique circumstances and implement the skills you're honing effectively to your current real-life situations.
(VALUE - $997)
MAN-FILTERING ONLINE DATING PROFILE TEMPLATES
I'll give you successful examples of client dating profiles to model yours after. These templates will help you write an essay that’s authentic to who you are and also shows your personality, makes you stand out, deters tons of wrong men before they contact you, and attract more dates with quality AND qualified men...You’ll save months, if not years, of unnecessary worry, anxiety, confusion, and heartache with this one filter alone.
(VALUE - $197)
CLAIRE FOUND THE ONE (WHO SUPPORTS HER SUCCESS) AT AGE 56.
I finally broke my unavailable man and unhealthy relationship pattern. I stopped choosing insecure men who hate my success. And I also learned how to tell if a man is worth it or not early – within a few dates – instead of painfully dragging out dead-end situations for months, years, and decades like I used to. This which was absolutely freeing and empowering!
I went from attracting men from the bottom of the barrel to attracting an abundance of high-quality men and began the best dating of chapter of my life at age 56.
This led to finding my guy, Jon, who's the most amazing man I've ever met! He's better than what I could've ever imagined. I'm SO happy! He truly wants to know who I am. He's an emotionally intelligent man. He's interested in what I do and getting to know me deeply. He's consistent and goes out of his way for me. And he even sends me hand-written love letters every week!...I just have to get used to treating so amazingly well.
Claire James, 56, Santa Cruz
CATHY FOUND HER MASCULINE MAN AND GOT THE FAMILY SHE ALWAYS WANTED (BUT DIDN'T THINK WAS POSSIBLE)
My self-worth, self-esteem, and self-confidence used to be so low that I hid the fact that I'm really a mum of two beautiful children to make myself more attractive to men. I also used to pretend that having casual, non-committed relationships was fine when it really wasn't and accepting crumbs was killing me.
I wasted A LOT of time on men who were all wrong for me, men who were emotionally unavailable, and men who didn't ever want to commit.
Orchid helped me own my worth, raise my confidence, and hone effective communication and boundary-setting skills things which shifted things quickly!
I met my husband, got married, and am now expecting a baby - all in less than one year.
Peter and my children are crazy about each other and I got what I always wanted (but didn't think was possible) - an amazing strong, masculine man and a complete family!
Cathy Sadler, 36, Melbourne
SARAH STOPPED SETTLING ATTRACTED HER KING.
Prior to working with Orchid, I wasted time dating guys I wasn't attracted to because I wanted to be "the nice girl."
I also did anything possible to make the bad boys want me and stay.
With Orchid's help, I've stopped being a people-pleaser, raised my worth to match the kind of man I want to attract, and learned necessary dating and relationship skills that broke the unavailable man pattern.
No longer settling for less, I've attracted my amazing King!...Nothing and no one has ever felt as RIGHT as this.
Sarah Reynoso, 40, California
ALLISON FOUND LOVE LONG-DISTANCE AND OVERSEAS.
Fed up, I took a leap of faith (and finances!) and signed up for Orchid's Attract the Right Man program. At the time, I had just met a man who I thought had a lot of potential, but I had no confidence in my ability to navigate the early stages of dating.
With Orchid's help, I gracefully communicated my needs, set boundaries, and navigated through a few challenging moments in the early relationship stage with a man, which made a pivotal difference for the BETTER.
Now I'm happy to say that that I'm in a loving committed relationship with this man, and we are discussing marriage. He's everything I could hope for in a partner. I would say "I can't believe my luck", but I know it wasn't down to luck, it was due to the approach Orchid teaches. It's also helping me build a solid foundation for this new relationship.
Allison Singh, 26, Chicago
CATHY BROKE FREE FROM A NARCISSIST
I finally got off a long-time rollercoaster and freed myself from emotional bondage with a narcissist.
Through this work with men, I’m learning so much about how I can show up in all areas of my life – how I’ve been over-giving and attracting takers my whole life. But not anymore.
Now I can say “NO” to anyone who treats me less than kind, and I can set boundaries when I feel taken advantage of by ANYONE.
I’m feeling truly empowered for the first time in my life at 57 years old and enjoying being a high-value woman free from narcissim.
Cathy Wolfe, 57, New Jersey
Attract the Right Man is perfect for you if you're SINGLE and you want an effective method and support system that empowers you to be seen and respected as a high-value woman, magnetize high-quality men, break negative dating and relationship patterns for good, and attract healthy love with the right, emotionally available man for you as soon as possible.
We’ll meet on Zoom for our live group coaching sessions. All you have to do is click on a link and you're in - super easy! We'll also stay connected in between sessions in our secret, members-only Facebook group. This way, you can get support and coaching from me regularly.
We'll meet on the first 3 Wednesdays of every month from August 7, 2019 through April 15, 2019 at 6pm PST / 9pm EST. If you have a time conflict, don't worry - you won’t miss a thing! Just email your questions to firstname.lastname@example.org on the day of to get them answered and recorded. (You get lifetime access to all the audio recordings of our group coaching sessions.)
You'll learn how to break negative dating and relationship patterns and attract the right man and healthy love through 12 Training Modules containing video lessons, worksheets, and training guides that cover the 10 Essential Love Piillars above. You'll also get personalized 1-on-1 coaching, Facbook group coaching support, and the opportunity to speed up your breakthrough by learning from other women's experiences too.
>> 27 LIVE Group Coaching Sessions to give you personalized 1:1 coaching that's relevant to you.
>> 12 Training Modules covering the 10 Love Pillars above.
>> Personalized Communication Scripts written by Orchid for all your dating and man-qualifying needs.
>> Lifetime Access to content, including all group coaching session recordings, worksheets, and actions guides.
>> Private Facebook Group Support (BONUS) so you can get coaching and get all of your questions answered in between our group coaching sessions.
>> Man-Filtering Online Dating Profile Templates and Profile Audit by Orchid (BONUS): If desired, you can use one of our private sessions to have Orchid edit and optimize your online dating profile personally from top to bottom.
*****5 PRIVATE ONE-ON-ONE COACHING SESSIONS (BIG BONUS): This way, you can receive extra (confidential) support around anything you need.